tigertails
03-02-2010, 11:34 PM
Here is the question. First comment is this child (13 male) is not mine but like a little brother to me as I am a close friend of his mother and a role model for him. He is in the fabiun school and seems to be pushed around a little bit from someone that wants to bully him a little bit. He has been kicked once and pushed around. He has had his lunch box taken and thrown into the creek. He even had this person try to take his back pack and do the same but it failed. The school does not seem to do much about it and the kid is bid enough to defend himself and handle it. The problem is it is a 13 year old girl that is shorter than him but heavier. He was always taught to not hit a girl but as I was raised, a bully is a bully and to end it you must stand up and hit them back in spite of the sex. I told him that should it happen once again (and he has already gone to the principles office and the school was contacted by his mother) that he has to retaliate and hit her back but wait until off school grounds and she tries one more thing. SO at what point do you decide that your kid must hit back and retaliate regardless of the sex?